“Turd-Pong” Or, Some of the Best Feminism 101 I’ve Read in a Long Time
Today someone linked* to a wonderful piece by Lindy West explaining feminism to the dude who wants to talk debate the existence of privilege and misandry. And it’s fucking wonderful.
I was sold before I hit the phrase “turd-pong” which just made my damn day. Here’s the end of the introduction:
It is nearly impossible to address problems facing women—especially problems in which men are even tangentially culpable—without comments sections devolving into cries of “misandry!” from men and replies of “misandry isn’t real” from women. Feminists are tired of this endless, fruitless turd-pong: hollow “conversation” built on willful miscommunication, bouncing back and forth, back and forth, until both sides throw up their hands and bolt. Maybe you are tired of this too. We seem to be having some very deep misunderstandings on this point, so let’s unpack it. I promise not to yell.
The rest is organized by sections.
Part One: Why Feminism Has “Fem” in the Name, or, Why Can’t We All Just Be Humanists?
Part Two: Why Claiming that Sexism Isn’t Real Is a Sexist Thing to Say
Part Three: Why People Being Shitty to You Is Not the Same as You Being Systematically Disenfranchised
Part Four: A List of “Men’s Rights” Issues That Feminism Is Already Working On
Part Five: I’m Sorry That You Are in Pain, But Please Stop Taking It Out on Women
You should read it.
* I don’t regularly read Jezebel, mostly because stuff there is problematic more often than I’m happy with, but feminists write some wonderful pieces there that I usually find through links and/or Twitter.